Man, im using so much Mandarin nowadays. But im not complaining 🙂
People give a lot of reasons all the time, with the primary aim of making themselves feel better. Has anyone ever tried to put himself in the shoes of the listener/receiver?
Focus on the good things and what can be done, and not keep reminding the listener/receiver of the flaws.
If there’s nothing good to be said, then nothing can be said. Pronto.
Words, explanations and apologies are free of charge and can flow out like free-flow drinks. They don mean anything. So save your breath if there’s nothing good to say except excuses.
I’ve been doing a lot of depersonalisation lately, and man it really feels good. I really wanna fly out of this world, fly to my own sanctuary, an empty white palace with gardens of roses and daisies, with butterflies all around me, and wardrobes of long, puffy gowns that brides wear. I can wake up to an effortless porcelain skin and doll-like beauty every morning.
Well, come on, dreams are free for thinking anyway. lemme dream on 😛
Perhaps I’ll really need these scenes for flying in the future T~T