解释就是掩饰

Man, im using so much Mandarin nowadays. But im not complaining 🙂

People give a lot of reasons all the time, with the primary aim of making themselves feel better. Has anyone ever tried to put himself in the shoes of the listener/receiver?

Focus on the good things and what can be done, and not keep reminding the listener/receiver of the flaws.

If there’s nothing good to be said, then nothing can be said. Pronto.

Words, explanations and apologies are free of charge and can flow out like free-flow drinks. They don mean anything. So save your breath if there’s nothing good to say except excuses.

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I’ve been doing a lot of depersonalisation lately, and man it really feels good. I really wanna fly out of this world, fly to my own sanctuary, an empty white palace with gardens of roses and daisies, with butterflies all around me, and wardrobes of long, puffy gowns that brides wear. I can wake up to an effortless porcelain skin and doll-like beauty every morning.

Well, come on, dreams are free for thinking anyway. lemme dream on 😛

Perhaps I’ll really need these scenes for flying in the future T~T

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About Kimono Party Girl

I was born and bred in Singapore for the first 20 years of my life, and then I decided that even after flying all over the world as a flight attendant, life is still too boring. So, in search of more adventure and add spice to my life, I quit my job, packed up, and left for Japan - which is, to me, the promised land. I've always been fascinated with Japan ever since I was 8, thanks to Ayumi Hamasaki, aka the Britney Spears of Japan. She's the first J-pop singer that I have been obsessed with, and my first contact with the Japanese language was through her lyrics. Yup, I first learned my Hiragana from her song 'I am'. But what really sealed the deal was my first trip to Japan in 2010. The fresh air, the beautiful cherry blossoms, the endless fast fashion trends and the awesome food was what made Japan the land of my dreams, and it had since become my goal to one day live, work and party in Japan. So after working like a horse as a flight attendant for 2 years and saving up a decent amount, I made a big leap of faith and moved to the land of the rising sun. I have studied one year of Japanese and two years of graphic design. Currently, I'm in the midst of shukatsu (就活 - job hunting). Wish me luck!
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